Here are 13 Reasons You are not Successful As You Should Be
Laziness – I don’t think there is an easy way to put this. I have to assume that you are lazy. Every single successful person’s work theirs butts off to get where they are. It’s ok to be lazy. Just admit it. But don’t whine about not being rich or not successful, ok?
Entitlement – Only a few people in the world are part of a lucky sperm club. You and me? We gotta work to get what we want. Quit thinking you are owed something You’re not. Get to work.
Fear -You are afraid, plain and simple. Afraid of looking silly. Afraid of what your friends and family will say. Afraid of everything. Look you are either going to stop being afraid, or you’re not. Nobody can convene you to stop. Imagine though what awaits you to when you stop with the fear excuses?
Negativity – You may not realize it, but the people you associate with might be negative. They could be a soul-sucking being who don’t want anyone to be successful. Get rid of them now! surround yourself with successful people and no by not successful people. People you want to be like.
Stop Thinking – How much do you want to bet you have paralysis by analysis? You think way too much about what you could or should do. Doers get what they want, and everyone else gets what they get. Stop analyzing and start doing.
No Goals – You plan nothing. You believe that someway, somehow, everything you always wanted will just magically happen. So you “play it by ear” and wait. You need goals to shoot for. Otherwise, you are just treading water.
“They” – There is no “they”. There is no secret group of people that controls your success of failure. You’ve made that up to make you feel better about yourself. The truth is you, and you alone, control your success in life/business/everything. It’s easy to blame “them” though, isn’t it? Weak.
No “X” Factor – You can’t do it because you are not pretty enough. Or don’t have a strong personality? You don’t have the “X” factor? Wow, what an unbelievable lame excuse. The truth is even jerks, idiots, and boring people can be just as successful as anyone else. Your problem is you don’t believe it yet.
Waste Time – You’re a classic time waster. You spend hours and hours every day working on not – working. You do things that aren’t productive. How are you going to get anything done, or reach any goal if you keep wasting time? You’re not. So you might as well give up now if you’re going to keep this path.
Social BS – You spend way too much time in social media land. You waste about 50% of your productive hours of the day doing this. The sad part is, you know it, but you can’t stop. So you can’t get anything done that matters.
Think Small – You think way too small. You are constantly looking only a day or a week ahead instead of years ahead. Because of this, you never get anywhere, and you never lead, you always follow.
Don’t Want it – You dont really want to be successful. Sure you like to dream about it like everyone else. But in your heart you are afraid of what might happen, if you really get it. Thats B.S fear your brain is feeding you. Success is change, and it feels really really good. Tell your brain to shut the [foolishness] up.
Dont Believe – You never believed that it’s possible. Society taught you that only few “exceptional” people get what they want. Everyone else should just settle. If you really want to believe that, go ahead. The rest of us will be at the front of the line because we believe.
Are you hungry?
Here is a buffet spread-you can eat some or eat nothing-it depends on how hungry you are.
Starters: (pick any 2)
1. Get up early (you can accomplish 20% more during 5 am to 8 am)2.......